Bar & Bat Mitzvah mentoring · for every kind of mind

Online Bar & Bat Mitzvah lessons — at your child's pace

Warm, creative, one-on-one preparation for children on the autism spectrum, with ADHD or anxiety — in their own language, over Zoom. No rigid institutions. No pressure.

Lovely — Avidan has a gentle way in for that. Leave your email and he’ll personally arrange a free, no-pressure intro.

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Let’s get to know your child
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Sensory-friendly · move, pause, repeat — always okay
Avidan Madar teaching a child Bar Mitzvah Torah reading online over Zoom
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For your child

Made for kids who don’t fit the standard mold

On the spectrum, full of energy, shy, or new to Hebrew — Avidan meets every child exactly where they are.

On the autism spectrum
ADHD & big energy
Anxiety or shyness
New to Hebrew
How it works

Three gentle steps

1

Book a free intro

Leave your email — Avidan personally arranges a free, no-pressure intro call. No forms, no waiting lists.

Online Bar Mitzvah lesson with a child
2

A free hello on Zoom

A relaxed 10-minute call with your child, just to say hi and feel the connection.

Free intro Zoom meeting for Bar Mitzvah preparation
3

Short, playful sessions

Two gentle Zoom sessions a week — about 20–30 minutes, in your child’s language, learning through song and play.

Bar Mitzvah tutoring for a child with special needs
Avidan Madar, online Bar and Bat Mitzvah tutor based in Berlin
Meet Avidan

Avidan is a chief cantor, musician and educator based in Switzerland and Berlin, with a rare gift for connecting with children. He isn’t a rigid institution or a strict teacher — he’s like a caring big brother who turns pressure into joy.

  • Chief cantor in European communities — led prayers and Torah reading
  • Two degrees in education: secondary teaching and special education
  • Fluent in Ashkenazi, Yekke, Sephardi-Moroccan and Yemenite cantillation
  • Has prepared many children — including on the spectrum, with ADHD, and non-Hebrew speakers

He prepares your child for their part; you arrange the celebration in your own community.

Teaches in: Hebrew, English, German & French — plus a little Swiss German, Swedish, Czech & Polish

Questions parents ask

Does my child need to know Hebrew?

Not at all. Avidan teaches in your child's language and can use phonetic transliteration — the meaning matters more than perfect Hebrew.

How long is each session?

Short and gentle — about 20–30 minutes, twice a week, adjusted to your child's focus that day.

What if my child loses focus or doesn't connect?

That is completely okay. There is no pressure and no commitment — the free intro session is simply to see if there is a spark.

Do you run the ceremony too?

No — Avidan prepares your child for their part. You arrange the celebration in your own community, your way.

Can sessions take place in person?

When it's technically possible — yes. It just needs to be arranged in advance.

Ready to begin, gently?

Leave your email and Avidan will personally arrange a free, no-obligation intro.

Thank you! 💛 Avidan will personally be in touch very soon to arrange your free intro.
100% free & no commitment · GDPR-compliant · no spam
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